<DIV id=Comment-Li-Content-0 class=Li-Content>If you were&nbsp;born in China and worked in China for 10 years, you could get 10-year free visa entry to China if you are Chinese American, is that possible? Should be a reasonable benefit to those Chinese Americans? </DIV>

不能简单地说人家Loser,来美成功人士在成功前恐怕都曾有过这种想法吧.<br>

A loser makes no difference where to live

眼高手低，在哪都不快乐。

楼主好象是太贪了一点，啥都要全，这可能吗？人生不学会取舍，最后一样都留不住，包括你的老婆孩子。但愿你对他们会比对你的事业要宽容得多，能多看到他们的优点，多感恩。<br>&nbsp;<br>楼主想要的就好比：既要老婆雷厉风行又能精功细作，既高贵内敛有城府，又活泼开朗爱笑爱唱爱跳，可能吗？这样的老婆不能说绝对不存在，但机率很小。<br>&nbsp;<br>楼主就慢慢纠结吧！<br>

无病呻吟. 有房有车用绝望这个词合适吗！ 对老婆孩子好点, 少没事找事

Yes, you should appreciate the best place for living in the world, the Great Atlanta. If you live in Boston, it is too cold in winter. If you live in California, there are no trees and grass around, if you live in New York City, it is too noisy and not clean.<div><br></div><div>If you live in Beijing, smoke and pollution will make you sick, if you live in Shanghai, you cannot pay your rent for a small toilet apartment.</div><div><br></div><div>Where is the best place for living? You are here in Atlanta, there is no reason for you to complain.</div>

随遇而安吧，满足于你现有的，欣赏你手中的，当然还要继续努力。还有很多人其实不如你，可见快乐是在人心里的。

有一句顺口溜：好山好水好寂寞。（美国） 好脏好乱好快活。（中国）

<H1 class="title entry-title" itemprop="name">This IS YOUR 家 --- Please 痛快地活一辈子.</H1> <P class="title entry-title" itemprop="name">&nbsp;<br> <DIV id=inner> <DIV id=articleBody itemprop="articleBody"> This Country is in dire need of people like you to work &amp; contribute.&nbsp;<BR><br> Please contribute to the Community. Please contribute to the Country.<br></DIV></DIV>

<DIV id=inner> <DIV id=articleBody itemprop="articleBody"> Please stay in the States and make your contribution. <BR><br> This Country needs you !<BR><br> I encouraged my cousin &amp; niece come, stay &amp; contribute to the States. I told them USA is a much better place for them to build up decent lives and happy families rather than staying in PRChina as deprived &amp; miserable peasants.<BR><br> They look like doing fine ---- My cousin bultup a family and has 2 kids now. My niece is working for money and looking for a husband at the same time....<br></DIV></DIV>

本事不是很大，但却什么好处都希望捞到。

The biggest problem is air pollution. If you have lived here long, it is very hard to tolerate the bad air, crowd, uncivilized behavior, corruption over there.<div><br></div><div>But once you have lived over there, you will get used to it. When I was in Beijing for college, I took one shower in a week, I wear the same clothing for a month, never change. Everybody used to it. &nbsp;Now here I take shower everyday, change everyday. It is habit, no problem at all.</div><div><br></div><div>People have great potentials to live everywhere with different life styles.</div>

知足者常乐。如果你不能把自己放正位子，去哪里都一样，永远不会有快乐。

不客气地说，你回国是loser; 不回国也是loser.