正在寻找教育孩子方法的家长，如果采用她那种极端的教育方法，很可能适得其反，不会得到好的结果，反而有虐待孩子的嫌疑。

If you are so confident about your parenting style, I am sure this book is not for you. I guess this book is for those who are still searching for the right balance, still searching for that right combination of western and chinese parenting philosophy, still searching for the right answer on how to raise a well-adjusted children. Whether her children is well-adjusted is not the point of the book.

7、9、10楼，你是很好的推销员，不厌其烦的推销这本书。不幸的是，我根本不同意她的观点，不可能看这本书。小孩该玩的时候玩，该学的时候学，其结果挺不错的，没有必要看别人怎样整治小孩。

<P>Actually I feel I should thank her for the marketing strategy. Without the pitch, I would miss the book, which I consider it is my loss, not hers. There&nbsp;is lots of food for thought in her book, even though&nbsp; I have no intention to copy her action. Being a tiger mom requires tons of dedication and sacrifice. I am not sure&nbsp;average mom is&nbsp;ready for that even if this is the best parenting method in the world.</P>

I am not sure if she is a good mother.&nbsp; But I am certain she is a smart salesperson.&nbsp; Her provocative title has earned her so much attention and controversy, which is great for book sale&nbsp;- the more controversy the better the sales.

不敢苟同。我小孩，经常SleepOver（多数是欧裔家庭）, 大玩游戏（拥有Nintento的所有游戏机，外加xBox），没有补习SAT。从常青藤大学毕业，又进另一常青藤大学深造。SleepOver能增加社交经验，玩游戏有利脑子思维。

<P>I bought this book and read several chapters so far. Please don't be mislead by the article in WSJ. This book is so funny and thought provoking that no matter what opionion you had before you read the book, it will make you think again. Also please don't take too seriously on some of what she said in the book, otherwise, you miss the point, even though there is a grain of truth in those words as well.&nbsp; But&nbsp;her&nbsp;shocking honesty impressived me most. It is kind of like soul-search. Even though you may have no plan to raise your children her way, it is good to know the critical thinking process behind some of her methods. It is that process, not the conclusion that fascinated me the most. My 2 cents.</P> <P>&nbsp;</P>

<div>"<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25px; ">值得每个中国家长思考，问问自己，再问问你的孩子，你是这样的妈妈吗？"</span></div><meta charset="utf-8"><div><br></div><div>Here's our daughter's comment when I sent her the article:</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; ">&nbsp;"Amy Chua needs to put aside her disciplinarian tactics so she can learn how to be a mother."&nbsp;</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; "><br></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; ">&nbsp;We do need ask our kids now and, maybe in the future when they become a mother ...</span></div>

<A href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/LIVING/01/13/chinese.mom.superior/index.html?iref=obnetwork" target=_blank><SPAN id=lw_1294968265_0 class=yshortcuts>http://www.cnn.com/2011/LIVING/01/13/chinese.mom.superior/index.html?iref=obnetwork</SPAN></A><BR><BR>take a look this interview

回3楼：有，但可以肯定是少数。你认识几位“中国母亲”不送孩子去学画图、学钢琴/提琴，女孩不学跳舞，允许小孩到（非华人家）Sleep over，高中时不去补习SAT？你自己能不能做到前面这些我都怀疑。

168上有没有和我一样做不到的<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 14px; line-height: 25px; ">移民出来的第一代“中国母亲”？</span>

<P>值得每个中国家长思考，问问自己，再问问你的孩子，你是这样的妈妈吗？</P>

移民出来的第一代“中国母亲”差不多都这样做，作者是这里出生的第二代，又嫁了白人，也还这样做“中国母亲”真是不多见。